When we or others go through pain and disappointment, we have to remember God is here.  We may think God is remote or does not care, but He does.  Remember the promise at the end of the Bible – Revelation 21:4 And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.

And God actually remembers all our pain and tears. Look at Psalm 56:8  … thou know my wanderings: put thou my tears into thy bottle: are they not in thy book?

The there is  Psalm 34:18 “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”  God is always with us in our pain. Notice, the verse says the Lord is close to the brokenhearted. He is not far away, but right there.